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When your boyfriend says he needs space it's not exactly easy to understand exactly what that means. Most of us try and look for a positive in it and we'll even question our friends about what they think it means. Most women will side in favor of optimism and will tell you that it just means that he's feeling too much for you too soon so he needs to pull back because he's scared. That's actually something we tell each other so we all feel better. It's not reality though. If your boyfriend needs space it really only means one thing to him.

If your boyfriend says he needs space he's breaking up with you in a very kind and compassionate way. When a man is ready to end things with a woman and he doesn't want to make her overly upset he'll tell her that he needs space to buy himself some time. She'll take it to mean he's falling in love too fast so she won't get very upset by it. She may actually seem a bit thrilled. Then he'll use the time apart to create even more distance until it reaches a point where he doesn't even talk to her anymore. If your man tells you that he needs time, distance, space or any combination of the above, he's really telling you that he wants things to be over.

So what should you do if your boyfriend says he needs space ? You should see it for what it is. The man you love is breaking up with you and if you want to keep him you've got to plan your next move very carefully. Instead of telling him that you still want to talk, and then trying to stay in close touch with him, you need to take a different route. Tell your boyfriend that you were actually thinking the same thing and you've been feeling the need for space. Then don't contact him at all for a few weeks. Instead of trying to find a way to get out of the relationship with you, he'll be focusing on ways to rebuild it. Once a man feels that a woman is falling out of his reach, he wants her back. So if you can become unattainable to him, he'll want you more than he ever has before.


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