Everybody goes through good times and bad times in life. Some people say that when the going gets really tough, these are the times when in fact we are gearing up taunts even greater success is, previously experienced. Knowledge comes through understanding. We have understanding of how to relate to others better, relationships get better and we find that we connect up more easily and our results get better also.

What answer do you give to yourself when you ask the question, what is the secret of my success? As it applies to you, yourself, what answer do you get. You may want to ask yourself, "what is the secret of my success?" right now, if you recognise your success, or read on further.

Whoever you are, wherever you live, ever you do, there have been times in your life when you have been a great success. As a child, you learned to walk, you learned to talk, and as you grew older the learned even more things. All these things which you have learned to do, as well as other accomplishments -- earning money, finding a lover or partner or spouse, achieving in education or in business -- all evidence your natural and inherent ability to be successful.

Have you ever heard that, of all the ova in your mother's womb, "you" were released! I think it is about 14 million. Have you ever considered that of the millions of seeds from your father wanting a piece of that egg, "you" were the one who made it...did you ever think of that? It's just a lighthearted idea, but is it not food for thought, too?

Sometimes it is useful to make the review of your successes over the past 12 months and ask yourself, however learned from each of the successes. You can also list all of your disappointments over the last 12 months, too. What could you learn from these? Finally, you could identify the your number one strength, and perhaps your number one obstacle, which if you got over that obstacle, would set you the most free.

Asking yourself the question, what is the secret of my success? As a mantra, will help you to uncover or discover, what it is that you have been doing, what mental action had he been taking, but thoughts have you been having, how have you been talking to yourself how have you been representing your perceptions, your images and that which you say and hear. Arguably, even more importantly, how have you been emotionally intelligent than during these times of success. Think upon these things, when asking yourself, what is the secret of my success?

When you uncover what it is about you that has helped you create success after success in your life - perhaps you could identify your top ten most successful moments and really think about them - relive them vividly and powerfully in your mind, in life-size quantity and surround sound stereo, with orchestral backing music and all the juice and glad feeling you can possibly muster.

If you do the above you can be sure that your brain will learn "the secret of my success" and help you to focus unconsciously on getting more and more of these successful experiences. Can you imagine what that would be like? Harnessing control in this present moment in this way can maximise your chances of creating an abundantly prosperous future.