Pregnancy where gives birth to offspring, it also causes pleasure and respect for females. The effects of pleasure and changing emotions because of pregnancy can easily be noticed on the face of a woman when it is her first. For a woman there is nothing in this word which gives more respect than becoming a mother, usually it longs for nine months and possessive wives in particular and all others in general should keep it in mind that this period is very sensitive for their relationships.

In first trimester many changes occur in physique, emotions, figures and health. Nausea, stomach problems etc. are most common in this trimester. All these things effect the mind of husbands, ad our relation is at the most risk when your doctors forbade you from doing sex. There are many reasons behind the sensitivity of relation in this period.

Mostly young husbands do sex with minimum average of twice a week. They think their wives as a peak of beauty. But when they are suddenly stopped from love game with their wives, a pressure of insanity increases in their minds and in start they try to control and curb their emotions. When wife is with you on your bed, but you cannot satisfy your sex, then many emotional pressures take birth in mind.

If you are stopped from sex or not this is always observed that the husband think that he has married a fit wife, but in first trimester he finds his wife with many medical problems, not giving company to you in dining, not going for outing, and her many of the charms are lost. Instead of going with you for walk and dinners, she prefers her regular medical check up instead.

During this period, many negative thinking take birth in the minds of some of the husbands and somewhere in the unconscious of all the husbands such as:

• It is better to enjoy with girl friends instead of marriage.
• People say right that one gets trapped after being married.
• Now it is the time of second marriage.
• I think I should make a girlfriend for etc.

Second trimester is good regarding health conditions recovery. A woman starts regaining her diet, weight and strengths. If a couple is not stopped from intercourse in this trimester, main problem which a husband faces is the laziness of her wife and her rough mode. As a woman throughout her pregnancy faces laziness and lack of mode and desire of sex and she becomes more passive in it.

The most painful of all is the third trimester which is last but not least. Many of the women especially in their first pregnancy like to go the homes of their parents as they feel more safety there. The activities are reduced to just necessities of life only. This is the most sensitive period in which gap and many understandings have chances to be increased.

Another reason that is big belly and many health problems make the husband less caring during the time when a wife needs more care, and he becomes repugnant from his wife.

There are few suggestions to women who cannot tolerate and bear any gap in their relationship during these sensitive nine months.

1. Even your doctor has forbidden you from intercourse, you should understand the sexual desires of your husbands and try to satisfy them. You may make your husband to ejaculate by moving his organ between your breasts, buttocks, hands or any way you like. But if you are allowed to do sex then it is very nice for you in these conditions you should make such position for sex which do not harm your baby.
2. Never try to go away from your husband for a long time even you feel more safety and care in the homes of your parents but try to stay with your husband.
3. Do never be just confined to bed, but should go for outing, light walk and dining as well but avoid jerking travels.
4. Your dressing plays a vital part in your relationship. While purchasing new dresses keep it in your mind that many physical changes may occur in these nine months. Prints and colours of your dresses should be charming enough to attract your husbands.
5. Your make up and proper use of cosmetics alongwith good choice of perfumes is of very much importance and keep your husband in the hook of your beauty.
6. When your husband is in the mode of sex, then never stop him by mentioning the advices of your doctor but try to do safe sex. Here safe sex does not mean use of contraceptives, because there is no need of them because without their use, there is no harm to your baby because the baby is already being protected by a cover of fluid which is a good prevention by God.
7. Try to make your husband realized about the importance of pregnancy and child. Moreover, try to make him understood about the sensitivity of your health in these conditions and harms which may be caused to the baby because of carelessness.
8. If you feel that your desire for sex is less than the requirement of your husband, then watch romantic movies, listen to the songs, read romantic novels and try to return to your teen age hobbies.

I hope that by following these steps you will never allow any gap in your relationship. And I hope that by my efforts one day women will understand their importance and make others to realize it as well.